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Sep 9, 2012

12 Smart Things Every Father Should Teach His Kids

12 Smart Things Every Father Should Teach His Kids

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 There are some things, from common-sense knowledge to people skills to potentially life-saving tricks, all kids should learn. And no matter how hard or uncomfortable some of the lessons may be to teach, it's your job, Dad, to instill them. Be sure to hit these 12.   


Teach a Solid Handshake


 

 

Model proper technique by putting 'er there: Press the web of flesh between your thumb and index finger into his so he feels it; that ensures proper placement. Then wrap your hand around his and squeeze gently for two or three seconds. Key point: Eye contact and a slight smile are essential. The double pump, while conveying enthusiasm, isn't.

Instill a Healthy Respect for Guns

 

 

Your kid might become vice president one day. Demonstrate how to keep the muzzle pointed in a safe direction at all times—downrange, toward the ground or up in the air—while explaining that every gun should be considered a loaded gun.



Learn Left from Right

Righty tighty, lefty loosey. That's how to remember which way to turn a screwdriver, wrench—or the lid from a jar of pig's knuckles.

What to Do When Stopped by a Cop

 

 

1. Keep your hands where police can see them.
2. Never run, resist, complain or touch an officer.
3. Address the police officer as "sir" (or "ma'am") or "officer." If he's wearing three stripes or a single silver bar, saying "yes sergeant" or "no lieutenant," respectively, may score you some points.


Proper Condom Use

 

 

 

When you have your "talk" with your son (or daughter—she needs to know this stuff, too), cover all of these points about condom use (and when you're done, present him with his very own box of rubbers).

1. Check the expiration date. Condoms are good for 5 years but those with spermicide expire after 3 years.
2. Never store them in your wallet or car glove box (pressure and high temperatures will render them ineffective).
3. Always use one, even with oral sex.
4. Break out a new one with every encore performance. Reusing one isn't worth the risks.


How to Console Someone

 

 

 

At some point or another while they're growing up, your children will need to console a relative or a friend who's just lost a family member. To make the encounter less clumsy for your kids, help them prepare a message that comes from the heart. (They should never say something like "I guess it's for the best that she's gone" when her friend's sickly Grandma Bertha dies.)

In the case of a grieving classmate or friend, they should invite the other child over to play or hang out or to go to the movies with your family. Even if the friend declines, the effort your kids made will not go unappreciated and will strengthen their relationship.



The Right Way to Dress

 

 

  While your son might be reluctant to hear it, give him this advice from Andy Gilchrist, author of The Encyclopedia of Men's Clothes.


1. Trousers are long enough if they have a light break in the front, and they should fully cover socks to avoid a "where's-the-flood" look.
2. Shirts should show a quarter- to half-inch reveal when wearing a suit or sport jacket.
3. Ties should descend to the belt line. A properly executed tie will show a dimple under the knot.
4. Socks should be long enough to completely cover the shins when legs are crossed.
5. Belts should match the color of shoes and end just past the first loop on your pants.



Calculate a Tip

 

 

 

Encourage your kids to tip well for good service—in our book that's at least 20 percent. (If they think that's too generous, lay this on them: "Some day you might find yourself working at Friday's.")

The simplest way for your kids to calculate a 20 percent tip is to multiply the pretax amount by 2 and move the decimal point over one position to the left. For a $135 tab: 135 x 2 = 270. Slide the decimal between the 7 and the 0, and you get a $27 tip. Feeling generous? Throw in a few more bucks. Does the server merit only 10 percent? Use the method above but instead multiply by 1. 


OR 2 1/2 TIMES THE TAX



How to Defuse an Angry Person

 

 

 

The best way to handle an uncontrollably angry person is not to say "Calm down" or "Breathe"—unless your aim is to fan the flames, says Rick Brinkman. Ph.D., who runs communication seminars for IBM and Boeing. Let the person vent for a moment while you compose yourself. Then calmly say, "I can see you're upset. I'll listen to what you have to say, if you're willing to listen to what I have to say. Okay?"
Follow that up with a question that leads him out of the situation: "What do you say we resolve it this way?" By asking a question, you give him the illusion of being in control. If this approach fails, walk away. 



Make Your Teen a Safe Driver

 

 

 

Have your kid log at least 100 hours of instruction at the wheel, says Phil Berardelli, author of Safe Young Drivers. "The 6 hours most states mandate is inadequate," he explains. "Take time to expose him to rain, snow, night, fog, highways."

Once he has his license, limit carpooling. A study by Johns Hopkins University's Center for Injury Research and Policy found that teen drivers with two passengers are 86 percent more likely to die in a crash than are teens driving alone. Also restrict night driving. The Connecticut Transportation Institute says drivers ages 16 to 20 are 66 percent more likely to have an accident at night than they are during the day.


Help Your Kid Get into College

 

 

 

Help Your Kid Get into College
To give your child the competitive edge, start planning in the ninth grade, says Michele Hernandez, an Ivy League—college consultant and author of A Is for Admission. Here's a quick guide to making the most of ninth grade.

• Freshman year is the time to perfect study skills and work on critical reading and vocabulary. Your teen should try to read for at least an hour per day, including areas outside of her interests.
• It's important for her to show teachers that she really cares about her classes by going above and beyond what the teachers ask for. Now's the time for her to become an active participant in class by contributing to discussions and showing initiative.
• Make sure she takes one or two SAT II tests before the end of the year if she is taking advanced science or math. Most top colleges require three of these tests along with the SAT I, and you don't want to save all until junior year.
• Beef up her academic resume. Enroll her in college-level classes over the summer.


Discipline Your Son for Drinking or Smoking Pot

 

 

 

Don't freak. "A vein-popping lecture will drive him away and shut down any chance of a meaningful discussion," says Xenia G. Becher, coauthor of Ten Talks Parents Must Have With Their Children About Drugs. After you've cooled down and talked about the issue with your wife, meet in your son's room; he'll be more receptive on his own turf.

Explain that you're concerned he's not making smart decisions. "Reinforce the message that he needs to stay clear-minded and focused in life and that drugs will knock him off those paths," says Becher. If he asks whether you smoked pot or drank when you were his age (and he will), don't let him steer the conversation away from himself. "Telling him what you did or didn't do isn't important," says Becher. "This is not a 'true confessions' moment. Disclose only if it helps."




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Jul 14, 2012

Fun Cheap Boredom Busters.................

Eggshell Salt Geodes
Materials:
Epsom salt
Hot water
Food coloring
Eggshells

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Begin by taking eggshells that have been broken at the middle and trimming them slightly with a pair of sharp scissors or a serrated knife to get a fairly even edge along the top.

Eggshell geodes 3

Arrange your eggshells in an egg carton so that they have a place to sit upright when filled.

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Make the salt solution by mixing Epsom salt into hot water until the water cannot hold any more salt.  In other words, you will pour salt into the water (we used about a cup and a half of water, but you could easily get by with much less), mixing well with a whisk until you see that the salt is no longer able to dissolve into the water and a slurry begins to form.  At this point, you can add a bit of food coloring as well.

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Fill the eggshells with the salt solution.  You can then set them aside to dry.  This will take some number of days, depending on the humidity level in your house.  As they dry, salt crystals will begin to form inside the shells, giving them an appearance similar to a geode.  As an alternative, you can also put the eggshells into the refrigerator for a few hours and from what I hear, crystals will form this way as well.  Nearly instant gratification! We haven't tried this method at our house yet, but I'm pretty sure that it is what Tiffany did with hers, and they seemed to have turned out well.


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How To Catch A Spider's Web
Supplies:
Black construction paper (or black cardstock)
Spray adhesive
White spray paint (optional)
Scissors
Directions:
1.  Locate a clean spider's web (preferrably one in which the spider has vacated)
2.  Spray the black paper with spray adhesive
3.  Spray the spider's web from each angle with white spray paint, careful not to get any spray on nearby leaves, fence, etc.  This may require the use of some newspaper as a dropcloth.
4.  With the black paper behind the web, slowly bring the paper towards you until it touches the web.  Then with the web on the paper, carefully cut the guy lines holding the web in place.
5.  Document with chalk or pencil on the back of the paper the date and where the web was collected. 
spiderweb captured
Charlotte, our friendly summer spider wondered what we were doing!





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